Lol thanks guys.
I didn't see all this drama. Seems completely unavoidable in my life it seems, so I try to ignore it as much as possible and just minimize how I react to it and how much I talk about it.
That way no one ever gets the satisfaction of knowing how/when I think about it. The more I do that, the more I condition people to understand that nothing good is going to come out of it.
I think that it would be a great real world strategy, but for me personally it just seems unavoidable.
I don't really care if I "look stupid" to most people, because I have near zero social motivation because I spend 99% of my time alone.
Meaning, I have almost no social consequences other than the occasional passerby who might "look" at me or something.
I've also completely let go of any possibility of having an ideal social life with people who share the same interests as I do, and I'll probably never get a real girlfriend, which was like 99% of the reason I cared about any social status at all.
So really, fear has been one of the only motivators in my life.
At the end of the day, if I were to see the post, I would just get whatever useful information I could out of it, maybe respond in a way that would help other people stop being afraid of asking for information, and also respond in a way that doesn't get me banned from the forum.
If I lived my entire life in fear of looking stupid or making mistakes, I would literally be in the exact same position that I was years ago in terms of applicable knowledge.
But 6 years ago, I didn't have a college degree, only knew how to work on old, archaic cars, and had a very limited view of the world.
Could the thing fail? Yeah. But I've also had cars fail for very "odd" reasons that didn't seem related to anything that I did, so it's hard for me to attach any sort of responsibility for it at the end of the day, because it seems like even if I do my best, it's probably going to fail at some point where it's extremely inconvenient for me, for reasons unrelated to anything that I did to it.
All I can really do is give it my best, and live like I have some semblance of normalcy.
I mean, the whole reason I'm even on this forum is to hopefully get information from other people, and to hopefully help other people in similar situations find the same kind of information.
DIY car maintanence is really fun, but a lot of people are also in really crappy situations where a <= $2000 car is often the only thing that they can afford, and with the proper guidance and maintanance, they can probably get quite a bit of good use out of it, have a lot of fun, and feel personally proud about something for once in their life.
Anyways, not really sure what was said about "draining", but I also don't see what the problem would be with this situation:
- You notice you have too much oil.
- You know that that's going to be a problem.
- You always carry a drain pain, extra fluids, and a pump with you, but the pump tube won't go down the dipstick hole.
Logically, the only thing left is to drain it from the plug, leave as little of a mess as possible (I literally left nothing behind, and cleaned up what little splatter i had from my cheap *** drain pan), and re-fill until the thing is at optimal levels.
What would you do if you lost coolant? Same thing right?
Lol.
I didn't see all this drama. Seems completely unavoidable in my life it seems, so I try to ignore it as much as possible and just minimize how I react to it and how much I talk about it.
That way no one ever gets the satisfaction of knowing how/when I think about it. The more I do that, the more I condition people to understand that nothing good is going to come out of it.
I think that it would be a great real world strategy, but for me personally it just seems unavoidable.
I don't really care if I "look stupid" to most people, because I have near zero social motivation because I spend 99% of my time alone.
Meaning, I have almost no social consequences other than the occasional passerby who might "look" at me or something.
I've also completely let go of any possibility of having an ideal social life with people who share the same interests as I do, and I'll probably never get a real girlfriend, which was like 99% of the reason I cared about any social status at all.
So really, fear has been one of the only motivators in my life.
At the end of the day, if I were to see the post, I would just get whatever useful information I could out of it, maybe respond in a way that would help other people stop being afraid of asking for information, and also respond in a way that doesn't get me banned from the forum.
If I lived my entire life in fear of looking stupid or making mistakes, I would literally be in the exact same position that I was years ago in terms of applicable knowledge.
But 6 years ago, I didn't have a college degree, only knew how to work on old, archaic cars, and had a very limited view of the world.
Could the thing fail? Yeah. But I've also had cars fail for very "odd" reasons that didn't seem related to anything that I did, so it's hard for me to attach any sort of responsibility for it at the end of the day, because it seems like even if I do my best, it's probably going to fail at some point where it's extremely inconvenient for me, for reasons unrelated to anything that I did to it.
All I can really do is give it my best, and live like I have some semblance of normalcy.
I mean, the whole reason I'm even on this forum is to hopefully get information from other people, and to hopefully help other people in similar situations find the same kind of information.
DIY car maintanence is really fun, but a lot of people are also in really crappy situations where a <= $2000 car is often the only thing that they can afford, and with the proper guidance and maintanance, they can probably get quite a bit of good use out of it, have a lot of fun, and feel personally proud about something for once in their life.
Anyways, not really sure what was said about "draining", but I also don't see what the problem would be with this situation:
- You notice you have too much oil.
- You know that that's going to be a problem.
- You always carry a drain pain, extra fluids, and a pump with you, but the pump tube won't go down the dipstick hole.
Logically, the only thing left is to drain it from the plug, leave as little of a mess as possible (I literally left nothing behind, and cleaned up what little splatter i had from my cheap *** drain pan), and re-fill until the thing is at optimal levels.
What would you do if you lost coolant? Same thing right?
Lol.